Been quite sometimes...
I didn’t manage to blog about everything that happened recently. Actually, I am planning to blog about something else.not about my life. well maybe, ive been there. and done that.but for now,I’m writing these for a friend.
But, before we proceed I would like to let you know that I am happy with my current job so far, and still glowing with mr.H.hm.hm.we just celebrated his birthday last week..well through 3g (of course, because he’s currently away). Been talking about the ‘big thing’ recently. Seriously, I am nervous. who didn’t? He’s in the process of application to transfer to KL. Hope everything will go well accordingly to what we've planned.
Alamak! I’ve been carried away again,ok ok.lets get back to business.
I’m going to talk about something that globally happens to us girls especially. Between a boy and a girl. First thing first, who am I to talk about something like this?
I’m not even married yet. Just being in a serious relationship doesn’t mean that I’m good enough to say something like this. Not even an Oprah! But still, that won’t stop me from doing this.because this is my blog, and i'm free to jot down about what I feel like saying.and right now I would like to jot down some opinions of mine.
SCENE 1
GIRL: hi u. where have u been? been looking for ya.
BOY: uhuh..i’m not well.my mind’s not well.so, I off my hp.
GIRL: oh ok. *sad*
My solution:
For couples: as a girlfriend, you should feel over-sensitively hurt, because no matter how big the problem is, he should not off his hp on you .sharing is caring, right? He should share his problem with you, no matter how ugly it is .So, when things like this happen, you should check him out. Make sure that there are no other 3rd person involves .If there is, you just spank her ass and your boyfriend’s genital (make sure you will leave the scar, so that he will remember), and walk away.
For ‘teman tapi mesra’: First of all, you have to know and understand where this relationship is leading you. Because obviously, you already know what he wants. of course,he also know what u exactly want, and he choose not to care about it. If he already make things clear to you,it is your job to take the responsibility to yourself.if he said ‘I just want to have fun with you’. Then,it is you that will decides.if u want to play with him too,then go on.but if you want something more that involves heart,you have to walk away.because you yourself already know that this guy won’t lead you to a serious relationship.go and delete all his contact number and facebook account,so that you wont have to see any updates about him. (tapi kalau tetibe dia termasuk dlm STAR takanla terus nk avoid bace STAR kan?huhu..then tukarla bace IMPIANA ke,LAMAN ke..)
Ok,serious2..i know its the hardest thing to do,to suddenly avoiding him after all these years you have been ’teman tapi mesra’ with him.but,what to do? Daripada asyik sakit hati je memendam rase,baik blah je kan. Because,he has the right to do what he wants and what he feels like,because korang xde ape2 perjanjian or ikatan declare ke ape,so itu yg sakit hati bile kena tanggung mcm ni kan. That’s the price you have to pay for being in this kind of relationship.trust me,ive been there.and done that.and that’s what I did.deleted him.and last2 die yg akan dtg cari kite balik. On different case,if you still want to ‘teman tapi mesra’ with him,thats ok jugak.up to you.but there’s a tips for you.Make sure u have a tangible heart, so nanti bila ade isu2 yang menyakitkan hati,boleh telan mcm tu je.because its your choice.and this time,you totally cant blame him for it.he gave you a choice,to stay or walk away.then you took one of it.STAY.
SCENE 2 (after you guys split up, and he came looking for you)
BOY: hallo beautiful. Mind to join me for dinner?
GIRL: oh. Wow…sounds great. *too excited till cant breath*
For ex-couples: don’t be stupid. After what he did, please don’t easily give him another chance. You are allowed to give him a try though, but don’t make it look too easy. .you have to make he feel the pain like u did before. thats what I called ‘payback time’. Jahat ke? Ala,die lg jahat treated you like this. Trust me, he did once. And he might be doing it twice
* nampak keras hati kan? Thats because die pernah tipu and cheated on you while you guys are in a serious relationship.so he deserves it.
For ex-‘teman tapi mesra’: and for this one, you should take it easy.you can be his friend (if you are still interested la), then try to understand him more.if you find out that he’s already changed, then go for it. try an error! But if he don’t,then the rest you know what to do.
*yang ni nampak mcm lembut hati sikit kan?thats because its not totally his fault,what.bukannye die cheated pun sbb dulu kan xde pape declaration pun kan.lagipun die dah berubah.
So,feel free to object or agree with me.
'A JERK IS A PIECE OF SHIT'
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